Problems with Latching On or Sucking

Wake the baby to breastfeed every 2 to 3 hours if they are sleepy and still have not mastered feeding cues.

Your baby likely will do better for some feedings. Don't be discouraged if they are too sleepy. Or if they seem to forget from feeding to feeding.

Some feedings will last longer than others. Your baby may need time to get going at the breast for some feeds.

Massage your breast toward the nipple (or use one hand to gently squeeze the breast) to send milk into the baby's mouth when they are nursing. This is also helpful when your baby begins to fall asleep at the breast too soon after starting to feed. If your baby is consistently sleepy at the breast, talk with your baby's healthcare provider to learn how to offer more calories.

Chart the number, amount, and color of urine and stools for wet and dirty diapers on a daily record until latching and sucking is better.

Use a correctly fitted, hospital-grade, electric breast pump to be sure all milk is removed. Many women will express milk by pumping for a few minutes after breastfeeding. How long you will need to keep pumping depends on how quickly your baby learns to breastfeed effectively. It also depends on how much milk your baby needs to grow beyond what you are providing with breastfeeding.

Weigh the baby often. Or record a test weight before and after a feeding. This is best done at the office of a lactation consultant or the baby's healthcare provider with a medical-grade breastfeeding scale.

Certain breastfeeding devices or alternative feeding methods may encourage effective sucking. Or they may give your baby added nutrition while they are learning to breastfeed. A certain device may be good for your situation. But every device also has disadvantages. To prevent problems, any breastfeeding device should be used with the guidance of a certified lactation consultant (IBCLC) or healthcare provider with advanced knowledge of breastfeeding. Devices that may be helpful in certain situations include:

• Nipple shield. This thin silicone device is centered over the nipple and areola. It encourages a better latch, more effective sucking pattern, and better milk intake during breastfeeding for certain babies.

• Feeding tube system. A feeding tube system may be taped to the breast or your finger. It lets the baby get additional milk through the tube when they suck. To do this, a thin feeding tube is attached to a syringe and taped to your breast or your finger (finger feeding). Then you or a helper can gently press the plunger. This sends a few drops of milk into the baby's mouth if they forget to suck. Commercial feeding tube systems are also available.

• Alternative feeding methods. There are also other alternative feeding methods. These will make sure that your baby gets enough food. But they are less likely to interfere with long-term breastfeeding. These include cup feeding, syringe feeding, spoon feeding, or (eye) dropper feeding. If using a bottle, bottle nipples with a slower flow rate are often preferred.

If any structural change in your baby's mouth is found, work with the healthcare provider to correct or treat it. Depending on the type of variation, this may include anything from mouth exercises to surgical treatment.

Skin-to-skin contact seems to help a lot of babies with nursing. This also helps you maintain milk production.

When a baby has the basic idea of effective sucking but can't seem to do it consistently, try pumping one breast while breastfeeding your baby on the other.

You may want to limit the time of each breastfeeding session if you or your baby get too frustrated. Or if the feedings take more than 40 to 45 minutes. This will give you more time to pump and remove milk effectively. You may also find it's easier to be patient through the learning process. You can always express milk and give it by an alternative feeding method.

You may want to let the baby's father or other family members and friends handle alternative feedings. That way, you won't get overwhelmed. This frees you to focus on breastfeeding, maintain pumping sessions, and enjoy cuddling skin-to-skin with your baby.

Don't throw away any breastfeeding device or an alternative feeding method because you did not like it or it did not work when first suggested. The device or method that did not help one day may work great the next.

Once your baby is growing and developing correctly and their nutritive sucking ability is improving, ask your baby's healthcare provider when you can stop waking them for feedings and begin to wait to see if they will demonstrate feeding cues. You will also want to know when it's safe to start decreasing supplementary feedings, if they are needed.

Keep thinking positively. It's normal to get frustrated and think your baby will never learn to breastfeed effectively. It's normal if some days seem an eternity of breastfeeding practice, alternative feedings, and breast pumping sessions. It's normal for your confidence to rise and fall. Try to keep perspective by having a sense of humor. Think about how far your baby and you have come since their birth, not how far you still may have to go.

Get support. Stay in touch with the baby's healthcare provider and a certified lactation consultant. But also contact a breastfeeding support organization. They will have lots of information. And they'll give you moral support whenever you need it.